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What are the chances I am ugly (withn pics)?

I don’t think I’m ugly. I think I look worst when I go outside in the cold because my skin goes kinda funny/red. However, I am afraid to leave the house sometimes because once some girl said hi to me when I was walking down the street and her friend said “what are you saying hi to him for… he’s UGLY!

Another time I was in a drunken state and probably looked worst than usual when this guy, who knew one of my ex’s said “you are the ugliest fcker I have ever met. Look at you, you mess”.

I have kissed a load of girls though, and had three long-term girlfriends too. I dated the last girl for three years and she is pretty. Some people don’t understand what it is about me that other girls like. But certain girls are definately attracted to me. It just makes me so confused?

Here is a photo:

http://i307.photobucket.com/albums/nn314/mjw1989_photos/RoomAll.jpg

tel me honestly what you think please.

how do you get over feeling ugly [pics][please answer] [serious only]?

I’ll leave the house. feeling alright about myself. then once im around people i walk with my head down, and put on a jacket. i have no confidence. how do i get over feeling ? im not really asking if im ugly or not. i just wanted people to see. for themselvs. and no this is not a joke i Actuly do feel very ugly. i ve only had two Bf’s and im turning 18 next month, its because i dont let anyone get close to me. [at least i hope]

http://www.myspace.com/_gummy_bears/photos

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&&lately i have fallen into some SERIOUS depression over it.

im not shallow. at all. i just wanted some help i Honestly Can’t Handle breaking down all the time :/

My friends think it was because of my ex. who use to hit me. and call me some horrible things. since then ive hated myself. :/

and its not just one thing. im just uncomfortable in my skin.
i feel ugly but not fat. im 18 and weigh 110. i never thought that i was big. i may look fat. but i have a large chest. my waist and body is pretty small
people think im jokeing but its not as easy as/ ‘get over it’

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Do you think that I’m ugly?

Okay, so a little while ago i went over to my friends house and she had her cousin over- her cousin is still in highschool but she dresses really kind of loser-ie. and im not saying that to sound mean, really, she just has like a super low self esteem and she dresses and looks really dumpy.
Well we decided to give her a makeover because overall she just looked ugly and boyish (and once again im sorry but im just being honest. shes actually one of those people you might see around and they dont look good at all and you think ‘if i were them, i would look nicer’ or youd think of a different hairstyle youd have if you were them because you think you could fix their appearance).
So I cut her hair, did some major waxing on her eye brows, gave her a different wardrobe and finally i applied her makeup.
She ways actually excited and she did look like a completely different person, but when we took some photos of her i silently freakout out because in several of them she looked like me.
so heres a couple photos of me – some everyday pics and some prettied up. a lot of people who ask this question put up glamorous pictures of themselves because they just want to hear that theyre hot.
but please be honest- if you walked by me say at a store or even at school , what would you think??

okay lol
uhm thanks for the compliments and stuff , and no i dont want attention, but im serious- dont i look manly? i have a brother and everyone says if they put a wig on him he would look just like me- heres his pic btw..

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l312/blububbel21/GEDC0213.jpg

Can’t tell if I have body dysmorphia or I’m really just ugly?(kinda long)?

I’m 17 and when I was little I was severely bullied. Girls called me ugly and even threatened to kill me because I was so ugly, yet at the time, I was in denial that I was ugly, whether I was or not, I wasn’t insecure about my looks, just worried about the threats.

Now, I’m EXTREMELY insecure. I’ve never had a boyfriend. A few “almost” boyfriends, and it ended when they told me they thought I was beautiful I got freaked out. Part of me wondered if I really was, the louder part made me think they were messing with me and being jerks and were just going to break my heart.

What’s weird, is that sometimes I feel pretty and other times hideous to the point where I don’t even leave the house and just stay home and cry. It’s always a new obsession or insecurity that when I tell people about it they look at me lie “Wtf? Who thinks about that stuff?” Like my face is crooked and asymmetrical, my nose is too big, my head is too big for my face, my boobs are too big, my calves are gigantic, my hair looks horrible, etc. It gets to the point where I refuse to be in family photos or take pictures with my friends. They’ll beg me , but I say no I don’t want to. I always think “If I just did this, I’d look good. If I just cleared up my skin, lost ten pounds, and got a decent haircut I’d be fine.” So my mom would take me to get my hair done and take me to the dermatologist so I’d feel confident, but now she refuses to even get me to have a haircut because she says it’s never enough. I’m insecure no matter what I do. But then, some odd days I’ll get almost narcissistic in my mind, like the reason why I’ve never had a boyfriend is because they’re intimidated by my beauty. Stuff like that. Then I go right back to hating myself and locking myself away because I’m hideous.

When I’m walking through school I get paranoid that everyone is looking at me and talking about how ugly I am. It’s hard for me to talk to people sometimes. When my friend didn’t invite me to the movies once I immediately thought “It’s because I’m so ugly she’s embarassed to be seen with me” instead of just “She’s being a b*tch or she just forgot”. When I look at the things I do or think I realize it’s ridiculous but I can’t help it. I feel hideous like 95% of the time. When I was walking home the other day, this group of guys honked at me in their carand then laughed and pointed then made kissy faces at me. I got the feeling they were being sarcastic like “oooh I dare you to flirt with that ugly fat girl”.

I don’t know what to think anymore but it’s controlling my every thought and action. I feel shallow for obsessing over my looks.

Could someone provide me some photos of before and after for doing the front of your house?

We just bought a home, and there were a lot of ugly bushes and jungles in the house and backyard, we ripped out the bushes, and were thinking to have instead of plants, just have like lava rocks around the border of the house, but I feel it might be too plain, so I would like to get some ideas of how to make it look nice in the front withouth having bushes.
I;m from Wi, but this not my question, I am trying to see things for landscaping to make the front of my house look good, and I wanted to know if there were websites.

Termite damage, sill plate replacment cost?

How much does it usually cost to have a carpenter replace a sill plate in a basement that is damaged by termites?

How much should it cost to redo our garage?

My garage has termite damage (although no present termites apparently, plus the roof is leaky and the doors are coming off. This is an OLD garage. It was never fully finished and just had barn style doors on it. Assuming we don’t have to pull it down and start from scratch (and how much wouldTHAT cost??) what’s a reasonable estimate? We are in Oklahoma. I want to get an idea before I start asking contractors for quotes so I won’t be shocked and/or cheated.

A house I am interested in buying has termite damage.?

Damage to the hardwood floors and some window sills is apparent. Is it worthwhile or possible to fix this? and if so how and at what cost?

The house is 1800sf, 2 stories, old, has wood floors and a brick exterior.

The list price for the house is only $20k below market value.

Need help! Found dream home but it has live termites in basement and needs new roof. Should we buy?

We’re in the process of purchasing what we thought was our dream home. The engineer inspection uncovered live termites in the basement, temite damage to the walls and cracks in the foundation. We also paid for a roof certification, and were told that the house needs a new roof and the current roof isn’t up to code. The cost for the new roof is $26K, and $24K to repair the basement. Has anyone had a similar experience?

Question about conflicting contracts? (termites)?

I’m in escrow right now and although it is not an FHA, my real estate agent included a provision in the buyers contract that the seller (a bank, it’s bank owned now) would do a termite inspection and repair any section 1 damages before closing.

The inspection came back with some section 1 damage to an exterior patio cover that will cost $1700 to repair.

Apparently at first the seller didn’t realize that the termite provision was in the contract and contacted my agent asking for it to be thrown out. Of course, we said no.

Today, the bank (seller) told us they have their own provision that they will not perform any repairs costing over $1000, and that they are willing to put that $1000 towards the repair cost to be paid directly to the termite company, with us having to pick up the other $700, or to forget it.

Can they do that? Do we have to pay that extra $700? Or should they find another termite estimate that will cost $1000 or less to repair the termite damage?